13 February, 2017 at 3:30 am #1022057
All i’ve seen on here is Moaning, Bitching with lashings of Paranoia.
It’s really simple, you moan about the place being ruined by all the rubbish going on, well do something about it, what is coming on here going to achieve? but let them know they’re getting to you, the staff of this place all need to come together and stand strong and not allow it, no favourites! we’ve seen the favouritism, dont say it don’t happen, IT DOES.
It’s okay saying ‘Use Ignore’ kind of a catch 22 there..the trolls are doing it for shock tactic behavior and the chatters will ALWAYS defend themselves as would anyone being abused/trolled online.
What we cannot change is how people feel, some are more vulnerable than others and do you not have a duty of care towards your chatters? The simple fact is YES you do. You opened this chat community and you have to deal with everything that is thrown at you because that is why you have the role of owner/staff. Also laws are a lot different to when this place first started out whenever that may have been, i’m guessing years.. for this place to get to this level of cruelty.
You have the ability and the tools to stop the trolls, but it’s clear to see that you don’t want to because so long as they are in the place causing havoc it’s keeping numbers up and money in the owners pocket! It’s correct every log in earns money, right!?
“The need for control always comes from someone that has lost it.” Think about this, why do the trolls/abusers do what they do online? Because the reality is.. in reality they have NADA. They choose to do what they do because they are clutching at the short straws left by them that left their world and they hate the fact of losing control totally, so here they are in their sad existance to try and belittle everyone else to make themselves feel better, when infact they probably cry themselves to sleep more than a person with a troubled life. They hide behind a persona they have spent years building and they thrive on drawing people to their world, but it never lasts because their true colours show eventually.
Then comes the paranoia because people never know where they are at with the people they ‘think’ they know, infact you never fully know somebody online, NEVER trust them! It will drive you insane and that there then sets another set of wheels in motion for the trolls, something else to thrive on.
Live your lives instead of wasting your good years on pathetic people, who don’t deserve the breath in your body and love those that love you back and treat you well, Arrivederci x13 February, 2017 at 5:16 pm #1022089
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I have just written what I thought was right at the time, I most probably have hit a few nerves hence the very few replies, or maybe people are too scared to actually speak up! Either way I got my points across. Ciao x13 February, 2017 at 9:02 pm #1022113
I was going to give thumbs up to the beautiful Elvis, but I am far too scared now!
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The King13 February, 2017 at 10:14 pm #1022118
Again, thankyou. I have just written what I thought was right at the time, I most probably have hit a few nerves hence the very few replies, or maybe people are too scared to actually speak up! Either way I got my points across. Ciao x
There are few replies because no one is at odds with what you say.
You probably have hit a few nerves, but that’s not a bad thing.
Well done and well written.