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    How many names does or did Nemesis have or had?….Apparently…Nemesis means adversary….Reminds me of that classic rock come Pop Group fronted by Phil Collins…..Nemesis….LOLOLOL

    Classic tracks…Land of Confusion….I can’t Dance…Jesus he knows me….and the ultimate Nemesis classic….That’s All………

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    #1114654

    thought you knew better mizzy.. im disappointed, were you mocking me too?

    people who live in glass houses etc eh?

    i dont smoke i certainly dont drink, i dont lie about my health.

    abused people go one of two ways, they either think the world owes them and take their hatred out on everything and everyone, ( its the only way to make themselves feel better, to see others suffer). or they go down the route of i survived and i’ll celebrate life each and every moment.

    life is way too short for the patheticism that goes on with the abuse and trolling.

    its like picking at a scab, or self harming, because that is what abusing others is really a type of self harm, its shows the abuser up for what they are not their target. and needless to say there is no level too low for them to stoop.

    i think at our ages (she says tongue in cheek because of the childishness), weve all seen people die. both my parents within months of each other two different cancers, my first grandchild, and how i felt “I” failed because i couldnt stop my daughters pain. being battered and bruised, broken bones, emotional and psychological abuse that never goes away. rape, buggery, being lied to, cheated on, it all happens to more people than you know walk a mile in someone elses shoes before you strt he pathetic abuse, one day it might be you

    you’re only a victim if you choose to be, survivor is far better!

    I would never mock you.  You don’t make up lies to get attention.  I have respect for you, I also like you.

    I will not apologise, I am in the right and I do not like people who lie about things as serious as this is.  It is disgusting.

    There is no reason for you to take any of what I have typed personally Laine as none of what I have typed was directed at you.  I do not ‘misfire’.  I am not ‘immature’ I am ‘angry’ and it has nothing to do with some silly chat man who thinks he is top banana in a silly chatroom.  Its about someone lying about such an awful thing and everyone being ‘ok’ with it.

    Makes me sick.

    Anyway my nose hurts now from all the typing.

    I have every right to be disgusted by her.  I will not be told I am wrong, or immature, or childish.  I am not the one who lied about having cancer am I?

    She is.

     

     

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    #1114656

    Laine thank you for your thoughtful reply.

    I think you may understand what I say..

    It is true we ALL do and say things not meant, regrettable. Condoning using a serious illness, correct not a nice thing. Easy to forgive.

    However, it is my opinion that this person has said multiple times her apologizes.  Regrets. Showed remorse. What u want her to bleed out personally to satisfy you cause you are jealous of your one true sick love.

    Sadly, your many issues have not found avenues of peace..possible resolve..bitterness provided more anger, stress. You harm yourself only. Upset others.

    You need to sit back..regroup..find means and ways to focus on more positive avenues then wallow in your personal pain.

    Now I am on short break period..gave you helpful hints..let it go. Breathe…find peace..resolve. this eat you alive and kill you..

     

    #1114663

    I have stayed out of this as my partner has had and beat cancer as most know.But now i open my mouth.

    Is Nems a bullshitter ?

    No as she said she was in a very dark place,done what she thought was right at the time but has seen she was wrong to say such things.

    As for Mizzy as i have said many times the amount of posts she wrote when pissed and next day scream her account has been hacked and she never wrote or would write such a thing was a joke.

    Good OLD whiter than white Mizzy !!!

    #1114666

    We are all forgiving depending on the person who needs forgiveness…….I think what NEm did was a bit weird to say the least…dark place or not…..I mean being in such a dark place but able to make up such stories? I don’t get it …..and it also makes me think NEm what you told me about a certain wooden chatter is true or not? But hey ho

    one of my besties is just coming through her breast cancer fight and while she was on her penultimate chemo treatment her husband was rushed into hospital with a suspected stroke…turned out he has a terminal brain tumour and won’t be around in the very near future…she finished her chemo had her mastectomy and radiotherapy knowing her husband will die soon…..

    now that fcuking sucks…..I have no sympathy for the hassle you are getting because of your lie sorry even though I will continue to chat to you as I always have

     

    #1114667

    I think it’s fine, if someone is feeling desperate enough to do that, empathise, don’t chastise. Who is anyone to judge?

    “Hypocrite! First remove the rafter from your own eye, and then you will see clearly how to remove the straw that is in your brother’s eye.” Luke 6:42.

    I think it’s quite an interesting sociological experiment, to see how people react. Stop crying because you’ve been lied to about something, and being so self entitled. That’s the trouble with modern society, it’s all about rights and entitlement. Delicate little snowflakes. Shrug and move on. And trust me, those who don’t let such things lie, have some serious rafters in their eyes. Critiquing others just removes the onus off of themselves. If someone is big enough to admit a mistake and apologise, the apology should be graciously accepted and it shouldn’t be mentioned again.

    “For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you; whereas if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.” Mathew 6:14-15

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    Hugs to kenters and one of her besties xx

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    Ge

    Abolutely we should forgive those who have ‘sinned’, when they have demonstrated they have repented.

    However when people say one thing on one site and another on this, it demostrates that they are not truly sorry and when they continue spreading false lies it demonstrates they have learned no lessons at all. In the online world of course, in the real world you would never trust them again.

     

     

    #1114672

    Abolutely we should forgive those who have ‘sinned’, when they have demonstrated they have repented.

    However when people say one thing on one site and another on this, it demostrates that they are not truly sorry and when they continue spreading false lies it demonstrates they have learned no lessons at all. In the online world of course, in the real world you would never trust them again.

    And how do you know said person doesn’t suffer with Factitious disorder or Munchausen syndrome?

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    Ge

    And how do you know said person doesn’t suffer with Factitious disorder or Munchausen syndrome?

    I have no idea what they suffer from, neither do you. If I did know, then yes, of course I would have far more sympathy but I still wouldn’t trust them.

     

     

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