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I am sure there are others better qualified than me to comment, with professional experience of these issues, however my crude interpretation would be that someone exposed to long term damaging emotional abuse, enters a state of hyper vigilance, on edge all the time and overtly paranoid that everyone else is out to get them and as such, in complete and total denial. Sometimes I guess it is understandably harder accepting reality and the harsh brutal truth and then dealing with it as best you can and moving on, as much as the circumstances allow. But for the grace of god there goes all of us. I have no absolutely idea if there is an internet associated disorder similar to say PTSD, but if there isn’t, there should be. There has been a few interesting experiments on this subject, subjects exposed to the “stick” over extended periods of time, would then quite often choose that “stick” over the carrot which eventually was also offered in tandem. Ultimately it is about personal decisions and unfortunately those of us without the tools to do so, often as a direct consequence of abuse, often make poor ones.
I have to be honest with you Gerry.
At one point I thought you were sharing the Millwall name with Alfie or that you could have even been Millwall.
I left the name out in one of my previous posts and just added dots, but it was you who these dots were referring to.
Why did I think it was you?
Simple.
Some of the things you mentioned in your posts, about working at Butlins, etc on these threads, were also mentioned by this Millwall character; even the syntax was similar to yours.
Maybe this person wanted to lead me to belive it was you , hence copying your syntax, the way you chat, etc.
He would always call me : mate, fella son, etc.
Another thing about this Millwall character (well I think it was him, as he’d stopped using the Millwall name by now and was using different names each time he’d log on, apparently) he was very friendly with Emmawhoo and when they were together in main they’d both goad me and troll.
Was this you?
Oh Christ…..
Here we go again……
Oh Christ….. Here we go again……
Stop it Doris, I’m trying to make some sense out of this.
I’m Millwall and so is my wife ……
I don’t take it personal, not now I understand it. Personally I think Blossom involves others, such as me, with absolutely nothing to do with her personal issues on this site, to avoid taking responsibility and ownership herself and laying the blame where it should be, at her own door and the man she refers to. In a way it is her way of prolonging her exposure to him and vice versa, by denying he is ultimately responsible, is her way of denying it to herself, if she can somehow excuse his behavior, she can somehow justify to herself why she keeps exposing herself to a man who doesn’t and hasn’t treated her very well.
I’d like a positive affirmation that people have met on here. No names of individuals but just a truthful yes to prove that there is trust among people on sites. I mean it’s a paranoid world online and in a lot of ways quite rightly so to be concerned about various factors but it’s also nice to know that people can actually reach out further.
I don’t necessarily mean dating….have meets ever happened?
Sniff’s………. what is that smell ?
Sniff’s………. what is that smell ?
Whatever it is…. It whiffs of that … Alfreddo.
Hee Hee.
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I’d like a positive affirmation that people have met on here. No names of individuals but just a truthful yes to prove that there is trust among people on sites. I mean it’s a paranoid world online and in a lot of ways quite rightly so to be concerned about various factors but it’s also nice to know that people can actually reach out further.
Yes :)
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