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To Morg aka The writer of Christmas Cracker riddles !
Everyone makes mistakes, thankfully some realise and do something about it !!
Do you actually realise what a complete tit you look trying to sound deep and mysterious ? It’s actually funny !! Grow up you daft bastard, and stop trying to scare people with veiled threats Your a middle aged man, who should be earning a crust or at least trying to, not sat on a chat site trying to sound like Mystic Meg fa Christ’s sake , give it a rest you’re making more of a fool of yourself than you normally do !!
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The nearest to a definition of love is given in the following song, The words are very famous, the music gives them new life and meaning.
It’s the meaning of love found by Dante after the death of Beatrice. La Vita Nuova is a marvellous book.
What is love?
I can tell you what its not.
Its not needing someone so desperately that it turns out you don’t really need them, you just need someone.
You fool yourself into thinking that you care for them when in fact all you really want is for them to care for you.
Nothing they ever do is enough, you want their attention 100% and you will kick off, get angry and abuse when you cannot get your own way.
That is NOT love.
That is you being selfish and not caring about them.
Real love is letting someone be themselves, trusting them and believing them when they say that they love you.
Obsessional need is not love.
Real love is putting the other person before yourself and not expecting them to give you unconditional love – unconditional love is only reserved for children.
Loving someone enough to let them breathe, they are not an ‘extension’ of you, they are your companion who holds your hand as you walk where you need to go.
You do not own or possess someone you really love and they do not own or possess you.
You cannot receive real love, if you are unable to give it.
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Thomas Hardy’s poem The Going, deals with the death of his wife.
They hadn’t spoken to one another in years, despite living together.
I can never read this startling poem, revolutionary in its rhythms and line spacing, without stopping halfway through the last verse.
Why did you give no hint that night That quickly after the morrow's dawn, And calmly, as if indifferent quite, You would close your term here, up and be gone Where I could not follow With wing of swallow To gain one glimpse of you ever anon! Never to bid good-bye Or lip me the softest call, Or utter a wish for a word, while I Saw morning harden upon the wall, Unmoved, unknowing That your great going Had place that moment, and altered all. Why do you make me leave the house And think for a breath it is you I see At the end of the alley of bending boughs Where so often at dusk you used to be; Till in darkening dankness The yawning blankness Of the perspective sickens me! You were she who abode By those red-veined rocks far West, You were the swan-necked one who rode Along the beetling Beeny Crest, And, reining nigh me, Would muse and eye me, While Life unrolled us its very best. Why, then, latterly did we not speak, Did we not think of those days long dead, And ere your vanishing strive to seek That time's renewal? We might have said, "In this bright spring weather We'll visit together Those places that once we visited." Well, well! All's past amend, Unchangeable. It must go. I seem but a dead man held on end To sink down soon. . . . O you could not know That such swift fleeing No soul foreseeing— Not even I—would undo me so!2 members liked this post.
Looks like Dangermousey has been scorned, and she is most definitely describing one of her over bearing exes on her long drawn out post which started to bore me by the end. This woman is obviously off her rocker to even give these types of men or women for that matter a chance. I see two shadows here one of a tall man with light shiny hair, and that of a very young girl in a white dress watching over them making sure they take the right path. They’re going to end up living in a very big house full of women figurines with two massive yellow pots outside a really large front door.
Facts geez give it a rest man for god sake !!!it’s just a pathetic excuse talking about love ….do you actually know what love is 🙄🙄🙄🙄
You don’t desperately need them like a weakling gasping for love at every angle, you actually want them for the person they are.
Never fool yourself you love them, or fool them by leading them a merry dance. Constituting in your caring for them without wanting them to care for you as that should come naturally.
Everything you do will always be good enough for them as they don’t need 100% of your attention, a little, will mean a lot to them.
Trust is the sparkle to any loving relationship, let them be free so they can thrive, and if they’re happy that will make you happy also feeling their happiness.
You have to fully understand what love is, then when you give love you should feel love back.
Your partner should never feel suffocated or controlled, or the fact you possess them, let them be free and make their own decisions.
Obsessing over someone over many years ,making childish videos, then posting them on a public forum hoping they see them and then pray they feel sorry for you, as to what you creepily think is love will only lead to suicidal tendencies, and also posting them on a site where you can watch videos whilst you were cowardly weeping into a lonely oblivion of regrets and hope, you can’t force this person to love you, no matter how much you desperately crave their affection, you will only tear yourself apart whilst they covertly laugh at you. They manipulated you with fake charm and subtle pee takes with creepy compliments to make you feel wanted as you have never felt wanted in your entire life. They preyed on your weakness of desperately wanting to feel loved, that is not love that is taking the Michael. You never loved them as you don’t know what love is, all you did was crave for them to love you, showing your true ignorance naivety and stupidity and became extremely possessive and controlling in your selfish conquest for them to love you.
I have chosen your specific post to enlighten everyone just a little, then when this post has had enough answers I will give my full summary on this matter. Hope this has not caused any inconvenience to anyone, just be patient and all will be revealed as ghosts know everything.
and he calls others posts drawn out….
cba reading any of that garbage
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