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    Bemused Bystander replied to the topic Off the Cuff (not word prosessed or copied from anywhere) in the board Chat forum three boards 9 years, 12 months ago

    The thing that I don’t really get, is when someone in the room is being abused, everyone just seems to let it happen. Almost like keeping their heads below the parapet in case they are noticed and become the victim of the vitriol.

    From the posts in response to Laine’s thread, everyone seems to be in agreement that is an atrocious event whenever…[Read more]

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    Bemused Bystander replied to the topic Off the Cuff (not word prosessed or copied from anywhere) in the board Chat forum three boards 9 years, 12 months ago

    It can feel that way Trapper, I’ll agree with that. Surely it’s about perspective and what you allow to effect you?

    It can also depend on how important who is saying what is. If those who spout ignorance and nastiness are of no consequence in your life, just don’t sweat it. Either that, or say little about your personal life in the room.

    The…[Read more]

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    Bemused Bystander replied to the topic Off the Cuff (not word prosessed or copied from anywhere) in the board Chat forum three boards 9 years, 12 months ago

    I think it’s such a shame you let the numpties get to you, Laine, but may I remind you of your own words in your original post….’and here’s a tip ok? it isnt real! its words on a screen’.

    If you bear that in mind when people are being less than kind, it won’t matter.

    When it first happens, it can be quite devastating and you feel bound to…[Read more]

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    Bemused Bystander replied to the topic Word of the day? in the board Chat forum three boards 10 years ago

    Muppetational.

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    Bemused Bystander replied to the topic Whose in chat f3 now in the board Chat Rooms – Forum Three Boards 10 years ago

    @rogue trader wrote:

    I love your reports about just chat el trappiata but alas I don’t go in there anymore,

    Er….I think you were in there yesterday….

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    Bemused Bystander replied to the topic General_Maximus pic in the board Chat forum three boards 10 years ago

    Welcome to the boards, General. Happy posting.

    (In lieu of Lady Kenty’s welcome, of course.)

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    Bemused Bystander replied to the topic Word of the day? in the board Chat forum three boards 10 years ago

    Confuddled.

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    Bemused Bystander replied to the topic Male or female? in the board Chat forum three boards 10 years ago

    @milkman of human kindness wrote:

    nice daisys horse lovely shiny coat something of a hunk asl?

    WTF?

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    Bemused Bystander replied to the topic DATINGI in the board Chat forum three boards 10 years, 1 month ago

    @kent f OBE wrote:

    @Bemused Bystander wrote:

    Welcome to the boards, tonedeaf. In Lady Kenty’s absence, I feel it’s my duty to welcome you aboard.

    Happy posting.

    Oh I missed a newbie :cry:
    Thanks for that bemused very kind….but the last time I welcomed a newbie to the boards it was Savvy…..say no more :lol:

    But yes tonedeaf…welcome and…

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    Bemused Bystander replied to the topic DATINGI in the board Chat forum three boards 10 years, 1 month ago

    Welcome to the boards, tonedeaf. In Lady Kenty’s absence, I feel it’s my duty to welcome you aboard.

    Happy posting.

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    Bemused Bystander replied to the topic A Day In The Life Of ……………. in the board Chat forum three boards 10 years, 1 month ago

    Do I detect a note of jealousy in savvy’s ‘final’ post?

    Perhaps Lady Kenty can afford what she has and what she does because she works for it? Surely that should be applauded rather than berated?

    Personally, I couldn’t care a jot about what people have or what they don’t. Ultimately we all share the same virtual space, and we hail from all walks…[Read more]

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    Bemused Bystander replied to the topic FAVOURITE SWEETS AND DRINKS WHEN YOU WERE A KID in the board Chat forum three boards 10 years, 1 month ago

    Flavoured Toffos. Except the banana ones. Just wrong.

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    Bemused Bystander replied to the topic Ol’ Ma Threebellies Gofradump in the board Chat forum three boards 10 years, 1 month ago

    @coathanger wrote:

    Unlikely

    I like the humble tone to your response.

    I, for one, am warming to you.

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    Bemused Bystander replied to the topic what ? in the board Chat forum three boards 10 years, 1 month ago

    Woods for the trees.

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    Bemused Bystander replied to the topic what ? in the board Chat forum three boards 10 years, 1 month ago

    @rogue trader wrote:

    haven’t a clue mate,im only replying so you don’t go in the no reply bin.

    You’re such a gent. A quality many miss I think.

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    Bemused Bystander replied to the topic my post count in the board Chat forum three boards 10 years, 1 month ago

    Having read your comment on the Anita thing, thought I’d give you a thrill to see the ‘1’ in the replies column.

    Oh, congratulations on 2012 thought provoking, insightful and philosophical posts.

    No smileys here. Deadly serious.

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    Bemused Bystander replied to the topic A Day In The Life Of ……………. in the board Chat forum three boards 10 years, 1 month ago

    Have you ever read a thread and thought….that’s 10 minutes of my life I’ll never get back.

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    Bemused Bystander replied to the topic DATINGI in the board Chat forum three boards 10 years, 1 month ago

    The more the merrier.

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    Bemused Bystander replied to the topic A Day In The Life Of ……………. in the board Chat forum three boards 10 years, 1 month ago

    @rogue trader wrote:

    id love to see a tale about those perpetual trollers moi and Gucci
    yes I know I can iggy but it spoils the flow
    what I cant get is….. well that’s the point I cant /don’t comprehend the whole moi concept
    people have tried to explain to me,,,, but hes funny cant you see?
    er no I cant honestly im not having a dig but I just…

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    Bemused Bystander replied to the topic DATINGI in the board Chat forum three boards 10 years, 1 month ago

    Was it 7 or 7.30, Rogue? I can’t remember….

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