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why dont you try my way of dealing with chatters you dont like
its easy all you do is arrange a meet,few drinks,then when you get out,pelt them with traffic cones,preferably over the head
works for me
anyway im not saying too much cos rose petal says im the most boring poster ever
and she told me i quote “fekky off”
Hello everyone..No doubt after my thoughts I’m either going to be confronted with the grammar and spelling groups or some other snide comment..( Seems to happen if you mention a few truths in here unless of course you’re a regular and your face fits or is that faces)..So knock yourself out people.
I do agree with Pete on his comment about people mentally bigging themself up..I’ve thought that previously when I’ve seen people trying to have the last word or font on screen.
They believe that having the last word or font makes them the winnet or champion in the war of words..If that makes them feel better about themself then great..If it makes then feel proud in front of the computer screen thinking ohhh look at me people I’m the main one and dont mess with me then so be it.
It’s not the person having the last word or font that’s champion of the chat world it’s actually the one that walked away and thought you’re not worth it.
Some people will want the last word with an echo.
Have a grand say people and remember one thing…KEEP IT REAL.
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All i’ve seen on here is Moaning, Bitching with lashings of Paranoia. It’s really simple, you moan about the place being ruined by all the rubbish going on, well do something about it, what is coming on here going to achieve? but let them know they’re getting to you, the staff of this place all need to come together and stand strong and not allow it, no favourites! we’ve seen the favouritism, dont say it don’t happen, IT DOES. It’s okay saying ‘Use Ignore’ kind of a catch 22 there..the trolls are doing it for shock tactic behavior and the chatters will ALWAYS defend themselves as would anyone being abused/trolled online. What we cannot change is how people feel, some are more vulnerable than others and do you not have a duty of care towards your chatters? The simple fact is YES you do. You opened this chat community and you have to deal with everything that is thrown at you because that is why you have the role of owner/staff. Also laws are a lot different to when this place first started out whenever that may have been, i’m guessing years.. for this place to get to this level of cruelty. You have the ability and the tools to stop the trolls, but it’s clear to see that you don’t want to because so long as they are in the place causing havoc it’s keeping numbers up and money in the owners pocket! It’s correct every log in earns money, right!? “The need for control always comes from someone that has lost it.” Think about this, why do the trolls/abusers do what they do online? Because the reality is.. in reality they have NADA. They choose to do what they do because they are clutching at the short straws left by them that left their world and they hate the fact of losing control totally, so here they are in their sad existance to try and belittle everyone else to make themselves feel better, when infact they probably cry themselves to sleep more than a person with a troubled life. They hide behind a persona they have spent years building and they thrive on drawing people to their world, but it never lasts because their true colours show eventually. Then comes the paranoia because people never know where they are at with the people they ‘think’ they know, infact you never fully know somebody online, NEVER trust them! It will drive you insane and that there then sets another set of wheels in motion for the trolls, something else to thrive on. Live your lives instead of wasting your good years on pathetic people, who don’t deserve the breath in your body and love those that love you back and treat you well, Arrivederci x
Dixie you have no idea how true your post is. Especially the first part.
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Hello everyone..No doubt after my thoughts I’m either going to be confronted with the grammar and spelling groups or some other snide comment..( Seems to happen if you mention a few truths in here unless of course you’re a regular and your face fits or is that faces)..So knock yourself out people. I do agree with Pete on his comment about people mentally bigging themself up..I’ve thought that previously when I’ve seen people trying to have the last word or font on screen. They believe that having the last word or font makes them the winnet or champion in the war of words..If that makes them feel better about themself then great..If it makes then feel proud in front of the computer screen thinking ohhh look at me people I’m the main one and dont mess with me then so be it. It’s not the person having the last word or font that’s champion of the chat world it’s actually the one that walked away and thought you’re not worth it. Some people will want the last word with an echo. Have a grand say people and remember one thing…KEEP IT REAL.
Truth to your mind doesn’t have to make it the absolute truth you know
Oh and not having the last word doesn’t necessarily make someone a better person, it might just mean they didn’t have a clue wtf they were going on about in the first place.
Hark at me daring to disagree
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Any prizes going for guessing who they were tailing apart?
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but I can guarantee if the place was closed, you’d be gutted, thats a fact!
How very odd you presume you know how someone feels lol
Every regular would be gutted if jc was to close.
I think it would be a relief for some; especially for those with an addiction.
I’ve seen it happen before on another site and they happened to survive very well through it.
Lol blossy,it happened to you on another site and youd hate to think it would happen here did you say?
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