@panda12 wrote:
Well, the ex ex has now finally left after 9.5 years.
The ex – it was easy to get rid of him as he didn’t live here.
So, finally, I’m youngish, free and single.
And I fully intend to stay that way for a long, long time.
The ex ex was bad but not as bad as the ex who was a nasty control freak. I’m well shot of him.
i cant comment on your situation as i know nothing about it, but i wish you well and a good life from now on in :) i had similar thoughts when my wife (now ex) had an affair after the death of both my parents within 3 months of each other, i found trust an impossible barrier to overcome, but after years alone i dipped my toe into the water again…i found the hardest thing was to accept womens feelings to actually mean something real. it gets better but just make sure you are ready…Sometimes time alone is a great cure to clear the mind and realise just what you are worth as a person. Fingers crossed for you xxx