“ Twelve… girls and boys if someone sleeps with that many and no one wanted to keep them there is a reason “
WTF ?
I do not understand this statement what so ever !
Are you saying 12 is an astonishingly high amount of sexual partners by the time you are say 45 ? Are you also saying that if none of those partners turned into a relationship then there must have been something wrong with him ? Don’t get me wrong , he sounds like a prize dick head in his attitude and just maybe in his case that IS the reason that nothing developed for ‘him’…. but it’s a bloody ridiculously stupid and draconian attitude to generalize so sweepingly that if someone , anyone has had that amount of sexual partners which they have not settled down with it’s because there is something fundamentally wrong with them !! Lol. Jesus !! What if 6 liked ‘ the guy ‘ but the other half hated him, he liked the 6 who hated him but disliked the other 6 who liked him ?? It’s ridiculous !!! And it doesn’t mean anything is wrong with anyone !! It means adults have had sexual relations without feeling a compatibility that they feel would last ….
Yes, wear protection, get checked etc, surely we all know this ? We aren’t 12 !!
I also dislike being addressed as ‘ girls and boys’, as if I’m particularly stupid and need things dumbing down for me and teacher will explain whilst patting me on the head !
why all the lectures on here ?? 😤
This reply was modified 6 years, 4 months ago by mooosey88.
Mizzy, be careful with the ‘ I love you ‘ stuff, it may be being interpreted in a different context than you mean, we don’t want another Hugs situation, unless of course you do totally LOVE Mr Q, in a ‘ more than friendship ‘ way ? In which case I can only offer you my sincerest best wishes and hope you Get Well ASAP 😉