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Couple of good points on this thread…

Rude asks why it matters its a woman being abused. Gender shouldnt come into it.

Arty questions why a thread was made about someone who cant respond.

Not all of us will agree, or get along, but seriously, is it really so hard?

When things get discussed here, when people debate rather than just scrap,…[Read more]

CBT wont cure my depression, time, anyi depressants and having a solid circle of support will do that. What CBT will do is equip me on how yo deal with all this.

That flat state scep? Its not flat, its having nothing left to give, i force myself to live, to do the simplest things like wash and eat, and sleep. Every day is a struggle, i do have…[Read more]

It even has a cliff to throw yourself off! 😆

Seriously, that place looks great, just need some trees.

Agreed…

How do we stop it though?

These kids need help…. i saw an article a few weeks ago about Robert Thompson. His dad walked out when he was 5, his mum was depressed, made several attempts to kill herself. Before killing Bulger he had no record of violence, he hasnt reoffended since his release. He has expressed remorse over what he did…[Read more]

My plan is to move to the USA eventually, summer 2021 when lil un has finished school and leaves for uni. I need space, land…

I need somewhere to rest my head, enough food to eat, and books, lots of books 😊

How close are your nearest neighbours rude? I want somewhere that i see trees and water not houses and people. There are so many places in…[Read more]

Its heartbreaking.

Not every kid from a poor or bad background turns to crime, not every criminal is evil but what chance do some of these kids really have? We live in a world that applauds material things yet make them increasingly hard to obtain.

Rude made a few points in the depression thread that would fit well here, we study things we will…[Read more]

Linda… losing our pets is hard, really, really hard.

The sadness, embrace it, it means you cared… the depths of your grief match the heights of your love.

I posted about it, and will continue to (as long as there is interest) because i think too many of us are scared to discuss mental health and its an important issue.

Laine… all my life i have dealt with pain by boxing it up to look at some time in the distant future. I have so much to process, ive survived rape, domestic abuse, bullying,…[Read more]

Dont get me started on Trump. Im avoiding that debate, deliberately 😊

I was gonna “like” this but then thought i should clarify why.

Rude, most of your opinions and views are just completely alien to me but i absolutely agree with your first paragraph.

You and i disagree about God.

I dont believe anyone should take a life but killing isnt always murder.

Murderer or killer?

Is there a difference to you?

May makes me be ashamed to be a woman.

Scep, why do you think people voted to leave?

You know the story of the dog on the porch, right?

Hes lying there, sleeping, fidgeting, whining. When the owner is asked whats up with the dog he explains that the dog lies on that spot every time but theres a nail there, poking into him. When asked why…[Read more]

Not sure how to quote properly so ive used bold. Jamie, im not saying Barras deserved to die but you cant dispute that he shouldnt have been there in the first place. Its not like Martin targetted Barras specifically, he didnt choose his victim. 

personally i dont actually agree with what Martin did but you have to allot blame to Barras and…[Read more]

Nems i dont know where ya from but look into clay pigeon clubs around you as they will supply the gun and cartridges  for you to try for a small out lay.Its a great day out and even more fun if you have never done it before and theres a group of you.

I dont think it was thought through properly.

What about production companies that wont be able to get parts because theyre not in the EU?

What about importation of our food?

Are we really gonna control immigration? How?

How much do we pay the EU that we could plough elsewhere?

There has only ever been one man in politics with any…[Read more]

Fair point scep but i stand by what i said.

Personally, id never own a gun though id love to be able to handle one.

Do i think Martin over reacted? Yes. Im not saying he was right to kill Barras, he wasnt. It should never have happened but to paint Martin as some evil monster just waiting to murder someone isnt fair.

The fact remains Barras…[Read more]

We were sold a lie, in a nutshell.

I am genuinely not into politics, i tire of wading through the garbage our so called leaders come out with.

I want to work, im happy to pay my taxes, i love our contry, we have one of the best healthcare systems there is. I earn about 11k a year scep, i dont go on holiday, i dont drive, i rarely drink yet i…[Read more]

No, i didnt.

Martin attended meetings with the National Front and supports the BNP. One of his uncles by marraige founded the NF. I totally disagree with his politics but i defend his right to protect what is his.

Fearnon claimed for, and got, legal aid to sue Martin for “loss of earnings” due to his injuries… seriously??

Barras had 29…[Read more]

This, and the tony martin thread, have really got my attention. There are some really good points being made amongst all the dick waving.

Brexit isnt about alienating people or exluding them, its about fighting for, and protecting whats ours.

This is a huge gamble, leaving the EU but personally i think it has too many flaws in it to remain.…[Read more]